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Tuesday, 28 February 2017

PROCRASTINATION: THE ENEMY WITHIN


There's an attitudinal enemy of positive change which is always used to forestall dramatic change in people's lives, and if you're a victim of this willingly or ignorantly, this inspirational article will aid you out. Procrastination as a disastrous habit, has destroyed many lives that embraced it as their habit or norm. It's a habit you must not welcome into your life at all.
Napoleon Hill quoted, "it's a bad habit of putting off until the day after tomorrow what should have been done the day before yesterday."

Touch a thistle timidly, it pricks you; grasp it boldly, and its spines crumble! Many readers and decision makers still find it so difficult to institute a dramatic change in their lives respectively. Why? Because the word "procrastination" is a powerful weapon of deferment and delay; delay to make a meaningful and productive shift or change.



WHAT'S PROCRASTINATION?
Procrastination is the avoidance of doing a task that needs to be accomplished.
It means the practice of doing more pleasurable things in place of less pleasurable ones, or carrying out less urgent tasks instead of more urgent ones.

Thus, putting off impending tasks to a later time. Sometimes, procrastination takes place until the "last minute" before a deadline.
Procrastination can take hold on any aspect of life. It can lead to feelings of guilt, inadequacy, depression and self-doubt.

Moreso, procrastination is a challenge we have all faced at one point or another. For as long as humans have been around, we have been struggling with delaying, avoiding, and procrastinating on issues that matter to us. During our more productive moments, when we temporarily figure out how to stop procrastinating, we feel satisfied and accomplished.

Commonly, it's an instrument used through the act of laziness to waste one's time of a great destiny. Not only that it delays a greater change or shift, but it delays to start a new concept or initiative and to reach a greater height in one's lifetime. It channels unsuccessfulness; successful folks don't procrastinate.
John Mason nailed, " success comes to the man who does today what others were thinking of doing tomorrow."

Unfortunately, this attitudinal enemy of change looks like an opportunity to be stress free but it's the beginning of someone's failure in life. Yes! If you don't do it now or today, you have eventually missed your chance and unusual opportunity to soar and to be successful in any ramifications of life irrespectively. Many don't know that procrastination is like a grave, it swallows success chances and advantages in a man's lifetime. It's an enemy that can't operate without your permission.
Hear what John added, "procrastination is the grave in which opportunity is buried."

Have this and keep it, opportunity will never come to you and sit you down to tell you the exact time; minutes, hour, day, week or month that it will come to you to succeed, but from my experiences as a coach, I'm very sure that it can come at any unspecified time, and when it comes it will penetrate through your past and current doings or works. Therefore, opportunities carry channels. Now what you've done and what you're doing now determine your successes in life. That's why you must pay a good attention to your actions. It speaks louder and calls you great chances to achieve.
Popularly known Thomas Edison mused, " opportunity is missed by most folks because it's dressed in overall and looks like bigger work."

Frantically, a lethargic fellow is a procrastinator, and he or she is more or less like a person who commits suicide. Note this, there's no how you allow laziness that you won't procrastinate, even your future. So, few things are more dangerous to a person's character than having nothing to do and plenty of time to do it. And the truth is, any life that procrastinates faces more to do in life. You can't dodge that, only if you want miserable life. I agree with Edwin Markum, he nailed that "when a duty comes knocking at your gate welcome him in, for if you bid him wait, it will depart only to come ones small and bring seven other duties to your door."

Moreover, procrastination has the capacity to terminate dreams and goals if you allow it. For when a procrastinator has finally made up his mind, the opportunity to actualize his or her ambition, goal and decision has gone eventually. This has been the major cause of problems for many lives which posses this bad attitudinal enemy, that's the reason why they can't run after their decisions, aims or ambitions to the stage of realization.

This enemy of positive change dodges stress and later dazzles the most strenuous job easily. That was why Sir Josiah Stamp emphasized that, " it is easy to dodge our responsibilities but we can't dodge the consequences of dodging our responsibilities." This is why most people who sit around waiting for their ship to come in often find it is hardship. Yes! Because procrastination wastes time and time is wealth and while destiny works with time.

THE PROCRASTINATION-ACTION LINE.
You cannot rely on long-term consequences and rewards to motivate the present Self. Instead, you have to find a way to move future rewards and punishments into the present moment. You have to make the future consequences become present consequences. This is exactly what happens during the moment when we finally move beyond procrastination and take action.

 For instance, let's say you have a report to write. You've known about it for weeks and continued to put it off day after day. You experience a little bit of nagging pain and anxiety thinking about this paper you have to write, but not enough to do anything about it. Then, suddenly, the day before the deadline, the future consequences turn into present consequences, and you write that report hours before it is due. The pain of procrastinating finally escalated and you crossed the “Action Line.”


There is something important to note here. As soon as you cross the Action Line, the pain begins to subside. In fact, being in the middle of procrastination is often more painful than being in the middle of doing the work. Point A on the chart above is often more painful than Point B. The guilt, shame, and anxiety that you feel while procrastinating are usually worse than the effort and energy you have to put in while you're working. The problem is not doing the work, it's starting the work.

Therefore, you must be bold and determined enough to conquer the thief of time not to rub you. Those things that come to a man who waits seldom turn out to be things he waited for. And in the calendar of a procrastinator, tomorrow is the only day in the year that appeals to a lazy man. Don't be one!

DON'T BE MISERABLE BUT STAY ACTIVATED!!!

Monday, 27 February 2017

POTENTIAL: UNDERSTANDING MAXIMIZATION

   Don't ask what the world needs. Ask what makes you come alive and go do it. Because what the world needs is more people who have come alive. Those who're passionate enough to unleash their potential; what makes them different and unique right from within. Life is full of potential, including you. 

The dimension of maximization and accomplishment in life come only through the path of understanding your true self, which exposes your raw abilities and talents. Understanding your potential is key in the operations of success in life. It serves as your natural endowment, or what I usually call "human natural resources." These are resources for the actualization of your purpose and goals successfully.

You carry something powerful, something extraordinary, something superficial, the some things that are in you can not be exhausted and overemphasized because you came out of a source that is always potential and you carry the quality. Therefore, What lies behind us and what lies before us are tiny matters, compared to what lies within us. 

Creation abounds with potential because the Creator Himself is the potential principle.
You are like a seed; your greater beauty lies not on the outside, but within. The future of everything is coded inside the seed, which is potential. Your potential which i call a seed, has something relevant and important as regards your future. Its exposure exposes you and launches you into a greater height. That's why you must understanding your potential. It's something that you carry everyday.

Moreover, everything in life was created with potential and possesses the potential principle, and this does not elude you. When we describe the Creator, we often say He is omnipotent. Omnipotent means that God is always potent. Made up of two words: omni, meaning "always," and potent, meaning "full of power," omnipotent means that God is potentially everything. He has within Him the potential for all that is, was, or ever will be. HE's always potential.

You will realize that you are not limited in your potential when you find and pursue your God-given purpose on this earth. Generally speaking, most people find their purpose when they come to an understanding of the events in the past and the present.Everything that was, and everything that is, was in God. That's a very important concept you must understand. God is the root, or source, of all life. I wonder what it must have been like when God was just by Himself. Let's try to imagine that for a bit. He steps out on nothing to view nothing, for there was nothing except God. And so God is standing on top of nothing, looking at nothing because everything was in Him.

Everything In Life Has Potential, but yours is unique and original. Understand it unleashing methods. The greatest waste in the world is the difference between what we are and what we could become. The secret of winning any prize is knowing that your own treasure and potential are equal to it and worthy of it.




Unfortunately, It is a serious tragedy to know that with over five billion people on this planet today, only a minute percentage will experience a significant fraction of their true potential. Perhaps you are not a candidate for contributing to the wealth of the cemetery. Your potential was not given for you to deposit in the grave. You must understand the tremendous potential you posses and commit yourself to maximizing it in your short lifetime. What is potential, anyway? 

Potential is your unrealized talent. I believe that every person on this planet has potential. Every person has that one thing that they are naturally good at, and which they are also passionate about. It is then up to that person to realize that potential. In addition, Potential is your dormant ability, your reserved power, your an untapped strength.
It's your unused success, hidden talents, capped capability which must be tapped and uncapped. Give yourself a serious look within to see these potentials. It's within you!

One interesting thing about this unexposed ability and latent power is that your potential never has a retirement plan. Do you believe this? You can retire from your job not from your potential, just because the maximization of your potential gives you a lifetime work not job. And whereas, you can't retire from your work, if you do, you're dead already.
It's so powerful in the sense that you can't exhaust it. Why? God has created man with a system full of potential. In fact, if you live more than a billion of years on earth, you'll still have each day to actualize with new potentials. Even, until you die you are still a carrier of potential. No one is a non entity,so you're not one. Give cognizance to this that you carry something extraordinary. It has been given to you for maximizing your lifetime. Potential is what makes a bigger difference between the fulfilled and the miserable. Check it out! 

All you can be but have not yet become. All you can do but have not yet done. How far you can reach but have not yet reached. What you can accomplish but have not yet accomplished. It is also important that you never let what you cannot do interfere with what you can do. The greatest tragedy in life is not death, but a life that never realized its full potential. You must decide today not to rob the world of the rich, valuable, potent, untapped resources locked away within you. Note this, because life is based upon potential principle, life suffers a man that do nothing with his potential.

To simplify this concept let us look at one of the most powerful elements in nature, the seed. if I held a seed in my hand and asked you, "What do i have in my hand?" what would you say? Perhaps you would answer what seems to be the obvious, a seed. However, if you understand the nature of a seed, your answer would be fact but not truth.
The truth is i hold a forest in my hand. Why? Because in every seed there is a tree, and in every tree there is fruit or flowers with seeds in them. This is the picture of your potential. And these seeds also have trees that have fruit that have seeds, that have trees that have fruit that have seeds, etc. In essence, what you see is not all there is. That is potential. Not what is, but what could be. 
See the potential inside you as seed. Which its realization must benefit the cosmos.




God created everything with potential, including you. he placed the seed of each thing within itself, and planted within each person or thing He created the ability to be much more than it is at any one moment. Thus, everything in life has potential.

Hear this, every man dies. Not every man really lives. Why? Just because they can uncapp and expose their seed(potential), which should stands as generational blessing. They've gone with it into the grave, so they didn't really live a life. You are not in this world to live up to other people’s expectations, nor should you feel the world must live up to yours.

The truth is that we are excellent, complexly and completely designed, tremendously built, intricately put together pieces of equipment. But we don’t know and recognize what we can do. We can’t even imagine the full extent of our potential. We don't understand our true self. And lack of identity has been a major problem. You can't know your worth, what you're up to, your capacity, your uniqueness if you don't understand your potential and the ways to unleash and maximize it.

I aagree with Stephen Covey, he quoted, "Ineffective people live day after day with unused potential. They experience synergy only in small, peripheral ways in their lives. But creative experiences can be produced regularly, consistently, almost daily in people's lives. It requires enormous personal security and openness and a spirit of adventure.





Whatever your discipline, become a student of excellence in all things. Take every opportunity to observe people who manifest the qualities of mastery. These models of excellence will inspire you and guide you toward the fulfillment of your highest potential.
Have this key, continuous effort, not strength or intelligence. This the key to unlocking your potential.

Most people live, whether physically, intellectually or morally, in a very restricted circle of their potential being. They make very small use of their possible consciousness, and of their soul's resources in general, much like a man who, out of his whole bodily organism, should get into a habit of using and moving only his little finger.

In any hour you can choose to liberate the future. All the potentials you carry is not only for you, but for your family, siblings, relations, friends, colleagues, society and the world at large. So, can you imagine the number of lives you put at stake if you just come into this planet and go back with your potentials unrealized.

Hear Zig Ziglar, "the real opportunity for success lies within the person and not in the job.” Believe in your infinite potential. Your only limitations are those you set upon yourself. The only way to discover the limits of the possible is to go beyond them into the impossible. Our potential is unlimited. It can't dry! 

DON'T BE MISERABLE BUT COME ALIVE!

Sunday, 12 February 2017

UNDERSTANDING THY RESOURCES

Talents are resources you need to be actualized.
     Everyone has talent. What's rare is the courage to follow it to the dark places where it leads.Talent is one of the most valuable assets that you can possess – makes sense, right? In this competitive, global workplace, almost anyone can develop skills, but talent defines your true potential – the internal, natural ability to do something well as you integrate your education, training, innate gifts, experiences, emotional intelligence and purpose. To realize and maximize potential, the holistic approach of assessment is a key factor to define your talent and chart opportunities for it to develop. Your diamonds are not in far distant mountains or in yonder seas; they are in your own backyard, if you but dig for them. Talent develops in quiet places, character in the full current of human life. It hits a target no one else can hit but genius hits a target no one else can see. 


   Tapping or defining your talent isn’t an instantaneous practice; it’s a life-long journey with many peaks and valleys along the way. So, how do you make the most of your talent and move forward in life? As a life coach, I'm here to give you FIVE talent boosters to consider and to operate upon as you move to maximize your potential:
                                        POINT ONE: RECOGNIZE YOUR TALENT- 
Don’t under- or over-estimate your talent. Take the time to examine what has made you successful in the past and what your career aspirations are for the future. With this process, you will be able to identify the points when your talent hasn’t been tapped.
This familiarity with your talent allows you to make critical career decisions, such as selecting the right next position or graciously turning down a seemingly good job offer while outlining steps to encourage growth and movement in your career. Another key factor is to identify your strengths so that you can be confident about what specific talents will support your career trajectory.





                         POINT TWO: IDENTIFY WHAT TALENT MAKES YOU UNIQUE-
A talent that makes you stand out from the crowd because your skill and expertise can be considered a great asset. Do you speak a second or third language? Have you lived in several countries, or studied multiple disciplines? Companies are searching for people with new and interesting perspectives and life experiences to solve complex business challenges. Showcase your unique style and talent. Give a better recognition to that ability or potential in you that stands you out among peers and colleagues. There's something in you which makes you different and unque, identify it now. Dare to be great!


                           POINT THREE: NURTURE AND DEVELOP YOUR TALENT-
Every artist was first an amateur. All of us start off with raw talent that needs to be shaped and developed. It’s our responsibility to nurture and grow our talent, while positioning ourselves for success. To develop your talent, it is great to look for work assignments or volunteer opportunities that add depth to your skill base, value to your professional life, and exposure for your career. The key to success is applying your talents in different situations and changing your work environment to broaden your perspective. Again, developing your talent means staying in touch with your passion and building on your interests to add value in your profession and career. Mediocrity knows nothing higher than itself; but talent instantly recognizes genius.


                              POINT FOUR:  EXPRESS YOUR TALENT-
Self-expression is the key to growing your talent. Talent is like learning a fine instrument that you want to play well. You must practice, practice, and practice to be proficient at playing your instrument and learning how to play it for many audiences in different settings as a way to understand the full potential of the instrument. I could remember this when I started playing baas guitar. "Everybody is talented because everybody who is human has something to express." Brenda Ueland quoted. The more you exercise your talent, the more talents that you will discover you can use as well as the new places, situations, and people that can use your skills. In many instances, we limit our talent from reaching its full potential because we assume people are not interested in what we have to say or offer. You can plan to get involved with organizations and people who are interested in the talents that your bring to the table.
Get out of the box now and start expressing yourself.


                                POINT FIVE: ORGANIZE A BOARD OF DIRECTORS-
This group of people is invested in you personally and professionally, and focus on your talent. They provide support and guidance that unleash the hidden areas of your talent. Select board members who can see in you what you can’t see in yourself. Their role is to carefully nudge, recommend, confront, and embrace your growth. They can be your role models, but mind you choose a positive minded role model. You are unique. You have different talents and abilities. You don’t have to always follow in the footsteps of others. And most important, you should always remind yourself that you don't have to do what everyone else is doing and have a responsibility to develop the talents you have been given.
Note this: "to do what is impossible for talent is the mark of genius." Observe it!
Erma Bombeck mused, 'When I stand before God at the end of my life, I would hope that I would not have a single bit of talent left, and could say, 'I used everything you gave me"
Hide not your talents, they for use were made, What's a sundial in the shade?



                                   DON'T BE MISERABLE BUT STAY INSPIRED!